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The Big “O”

  • Posted on February 19, 2009 at 4:38 pm

I recently read in a magazine that many women are still faking their orgasms on a regular basis. What?! Why would you ever do that?!!! If you fake it, then the guy who’s bumping uglies with you is going to think that whatever he did is working and he will just keep repeating it, you’ll not cum, you’ll have to fake another big O and the viscious cycle will keep repeating itself. Why not be honest with the guy and let them know (in a nice way) that you are not going to cum and they can try something different next time. Or how about speaking up in the heat of the moment and actually telling them what they can do to get you there. How many women out there are cheating themselves out of the biggest, most awesome pleasure known to man because they are too chicken-shit to stand up for themselves. What’s the point of having sex if you’re not going to have the HUGE release at the end? I just don’t understand it.

And that being said, women need to get over giving head. It’s something that I believe is essential to the entire sexual experince, just the same as a man going “downtown” on you. Why do so many women think this is gross or have a problem with it? As a woman, wouldn’t you want to feel like you are keeping your man satisfied? Too many people start to look outside their marriage or relationship for someone to satisfy their sexual needs when stuff like this happens. So to all the men and women, let’s try this little experiment. Number one, be honest with each other in bed about what your likes and dislikes are. Number two, don’t ever fake anything because you are only cheating yourself and how would the guy feel if he knew you’d been faking your O face the whole time. Number 3, everyone go downtown, at least once in a while, so your partner can feel satisfied. Dr. Brooke’s sex therapy session is now complete for the day!

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